Dating? 5 Secrets You Shouldn't Tell Him

Fiona Brown — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 15:05:12 +0000

Many people, I mean women, think that it’s best to divulge everything to their boyfriend but in the long run it won’t work and your relationship will suffer. It is true that if you keep something things private your relationship will flourish. Also, some things will just hurt your partner so mums the word ladies! Here are 5 secrets you shouldn’t tell him if you two are still dating.

Family Ties – It’s best not tell you boyfriend about what you really think about his parents. Even if his mom is rubbing you off the wrong way, keep you mouth shut. Do you best not to say anything negative to your boyfriend about his family as this will cause stress and make him choose sides. You do know blood is thicker than water.
Where You Spend Your Money – If you and your boyfriend don’t share funds then it’s best not to tell him what you buy. Many guys feel that all the things women buy like hair products, clothes and makeup is a waste. Instead allow him to compliment you on what your wearing and say thank you.
Past Relationships – Men are very competitive so when they ask about your past relationships, gloss over your past and just tell him he’s the best you’ve ever had. Don’t divulge how many men you’ve slept with and about “the one that got away.”
Any Medical Issues – Although this is a touchy subject, if women have had some medical issues in the past, you don’t have to tell your boyfriend. This information is for someone who is a keeper so wait it out.
What You Think About His Presents – Even though you write little notes, whisper in his ear when he dreams and email him hints of what you want for your birthday, you are bound to get something you didn’t expect from said boyfriend. Instead of ragging him, just smile and say thanks.

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Dating? 5 Secrets You Shouldn't Tell Him