Does My Husband Still Love Me?
Many wives will wonder over the years of marriage if their husband truly loves them. Wives go through soo many changes in a marriage. From giving childbirth one or a few times, to gaining weight to working full time. Relationships also change over the years and what you and your husband has at the beginning of the marriage may be lacking a few years down the road. If you are thinking does my husband still love me, watch of for these signs to signal that he does or does not. If you see some of these signs in your marriage it is time to talk to him and work through it.
- You Husband Prefers Staying Late At Work And Fishing With The Guys – If you find that you two don’t spend as much time as your used to, it may be a sign of your husband falling out of love with you. Most men avoid situations and if he has these feelings the only way he can cope is to not be around you and stay late at work and go fishing all weekend with the fellas.
- He Isn’t Helping Around The House – Most likely, when you two first got married your husband helped ith the cooking or cleaning around the house. Now, after 8 years of marriage, he doesn’t offer and instead, demands that you keep the house clean with three little ones running around.
- You Don’t Take Care Of Yourself – It’s true even if it isn’t right. If the wife doesn’t take care of herself, her husband will look elsewhere for what he wants. Wives should make an effort to dress up and put on some makeup. You don’t have to spend all day getting ready if all you do is stay in the house and go grocery shopping. But do put on a fresh pair of jeans, a nice tank top with a beautiful necklace, some mascara and lipgloss and you are ready to go.
If you find some of these things happening, you need to change and talk to your husband. Both of you need to make an effort to rekindle your relationship. Do a date night once a week. Take a weekend getaway every 3 months. Things like this will help your relationship last many more years to come!
Today my husband reveiled that when he was about 18, he was in love with a Mexican girl. Her parents didn’t like him, and shipped the girlfriend off to the military. There was so much hurt in his voice, that I knew he never got over her. I was shocked because I’ve lived w/him since 1996, & married him in 2004, before. I knew about a prior wife, but he never mentioned the Mexican girl, until today, July 18 2009. I feel betrayed, because I thought I was the love of his life. I didn’t respond to what he told me. He probably thinks I’m ok w/it. But I’m not.